Do we try to build people up?

If we are walking in love with our neighbor, then we should be trying to build them up.  How do we build them up you might say?  We build them up by trying to help them improve their lives in a positive manner.  When we give those of our family, friends or co-workers feedback is it with the goal to build them up?  Is it with the goal to be constructive?  It should be.  When we try to build up those who God has drawn into our life, it should be done it a positive way.  It should be done through the lens of helping and supporting, and not tearing down or negative.  When we build people up, we do it though the act of encouragement.