It's not important what people do to us

It is not important what people do to us.  But it is important what we do to people or how we respond to people.  Even if people were to mistreat us, God will use that for his glory and to our blessing.  We think about the story of Joseph in the bible and how his brothers mistreated him so.  They sold him into slavery because of their jealousy of Joseph.  But Joseph's God was faithful to him.  God was faithful to the promise that he had made to Joseph.  The key for Joseph was to keep a right heart's attitude during the process.  If we will keep our hearts pure and keep a good attitude during a trial, God will make sure that everything turns out alright.  (Genesis 43:34)